alright. i think it's time for me to clear some misunderstanding here uh?if you have read my tags, i guessed that you roughly know what happened too.
for those who dont know what's going on, please dont go around and ask people as not to make things worse. much appreciated, thanks (:
okay, let me start from the cine-vivo trip yea.
i know it's been weeks already, i dont wish to talk about it too.
but since there's some misunderstanding, i guessed i've to do it.
yes, i do agree that i'm kinda angry with daph during that time because i tot she was giving excuses telling me that she doesnt want to go out with us.
at first, she told me she was having stomachache so she not going to join us.
after that, she told me that the stomachache was real one, but she's going out with lyn because she thinks that by going out with her she enjoy more and not feeling left out.
other than that, she also told me that she doesnt want to come with us is because she know that 'some other people' are going too.
PS: not to say out their names, dont wish to pull more people into this problem. will rename that group of people as ''some other people''.
so yea, at that time, i was wondering why just because 'some other people' got go then she jiu mai join us etc.
because we are all from the same school, and our class was just beside each other, and were friends for 4 years. 2 years for some few.
at that point of time, i really think that her thinking was abit weird thou.
but i didnt confront to her the next day or so.
one day in school (after the long break after our Ns paper), me and daph went separate groups.
and some things happen between daph and kyh.
so yeps, we decided to sit down and sort things out with daph after discussion.
the reason she dont want to join us during the cine-vivo trip is because she felt left out. that's one reason.
secondly, she felt paiseh because in the 'some other people' group, she dont know a few of them well. as in, they are not really so-called friends yet.
thirdly, she thinks that the topics we are talking are different.
going out with people with different topics will sure feel sian de also wad.
so she decided not to go, and went out with lyn instead.
and that's why she said that by going out with lyn she enjoy more.
after listening to her explanation, maybe this is her way of thinking.
she thinks that when she went out with people she dont know well, she will felt paiseh/left out.
maybe to daph, she thinks that going out with people she know better/well will be better?
this is because when you went out with people you know well, you'll have the same topics to talk about.
it's understandable, i supposed?
and there's some other things we sorted out. but not going to say them all out, cause i think that the issue i mention above is a bigger one /:
but after we sorted all the things out, at least i know what's going on.
at least now i know why she doesnt want to join us cos of her understandable reasons.
right now, things between me and daph are doing fine. we, and the other 6 gfs are all back to the one big group we used to be.
about the kyh and daph's problem, i guessed we will talk about it when we return back to school on tues?
sit down and talk will be a better choice because there's no point now talking over blogs i guessed?
please, 2 more days to my birthday. why are all these happening to our 4 years (2 years for some) of friendship? ):
i dont want to lose a friend here and there.
to me, every friendship are equally important.
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